\u00a9 2023 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. I dont want to have to do that I want him back to the how he was in the beginning!!! Two years ago I moved away to another city which is about 2.5 hours away. I dont like hurting people, and I definitely dont want to hurt you. Ashley H. 9. I love him but he doesnt act like he loves me, I been through so many bf that either say they cant date me or they want to wait until they graduate but at the end they never liked me for me and now this one he hardly talks to me. Should I break up with him? New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. God bless you. Finally got a text back 4 days later and all it said was "I'm okay, just been working a lot." He laughs and says, no darling I dont have much time for you, how on earth do you think I have time for anyone else? We do go out to dinner one night a week. I had a couple of bad things happen and they kind of piled on top of each other. I would suggest you read some Gary Chapman as well. And sometimes when he does not even reply, I take it as a hint of giving him space. We arent in a relationship and Im not really sure what we are. I want to communicate all of the pain, but I feel as if Id be bothering you by laying it all out there. I'd had a long night driving home and being at the hospital. We r both serious and wanting to go for marriage. He's Super Busy. This article has been viewed 209,928 times. But don't worry - this isn't always going to be the case. Maybe he needs time and space to sort out his life. Texted her telling her I needed to hear a friendly voice and needed someone to talk to even for a little bit. But he does reach out and call me every day but he never wants me to go anywhere he wants me to sit home all the time but he wants to reach out to me when he wants I didnt know what to think. Two years ago I moved away to another city which is about 2.5 hours away. He has stopped messaging or calling me but replies very less frequently to my msges. Not knowing whats going through his mind is killing me. the next week we went out had fun. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. About 2 weeks ago I (19f) told him (19m) that I needed some time to myself because I wasn't doing so well. The most attractive people are those who are happy and enthusiastic about life! AdventurousSpirit. I haven't reached out to her either. Especially if youve progressed past just lighthearted chatting maybe youre sexting but not meeting up not seeing each other in person will eventually feel odd, or at least it should if you both want an IRL relationship. This is probably your ex girlfriend thought. If there haven't been many (or any) texts exchanged, look at reaching out to your crush as. (but do you want to hear it?). Ive had 2 years to get over my ex. Hi . This was the last message from him.I underwent a major surgery 5 days later and expected him to text me showing concern ( which he always did before). But if you give him time and space to breathe, your boyfriend might start calling and texting you again. Please bear with me, and know I love your company but just cant be peopley at the moment. Arlene G. 16. I at least want a good morning or "can't talk right now" or something. 10 years ago. Accept ypyrself. What I did i broke up with. But, after hearing both also, I see both of them going online and offline at the same time mostly late night. For more information, please see our He is simply seeng if you are with someone in the morning. This is just a small part of my relationship there is more but I dont know how Ill type all of this into here. When you let go of a person, you release your expectations. The effort it takes to keep up that happiness and love for life is exhausting though, and I can rarely find it in myself to do it. reading the comments I feel hurt nd surprised that how come Men have so much control on women..? Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and i feel that for a while everything was working well and he would put the effort to see me. But Im glad that yall are back together and I hope it stays that way for you. This really helped me decide what to do when my boyfriend stopped texting meappreciate it. A couple of days later I texted him and he didn't reply. I've listed some signs below that may indicate your ex still has feelings for you and would be open to the idea of coming back to you. I get it. The Friend Who Gaslights You If your compadre constantly implies that. He didnt respond. So 2 days later I double texted him. I think we should stay positive most of the time. He says it has nothing to do with that. He is probably the best boyfriend I have had and I dont want to lose him, Im always questioning myself does he still want to be with me? When the Corona pandemic hit worldwide and all boarders closed, my boyfriend suddenly began reduce on the frequency on communication. With this, is it because he is really busy and pre-occupied by work? Same thing happen to me right now, I got my bf from POF he was like in love with me but after a month talking about future he said no we are not in the same page he went and came back and started loving me again, we got closed to each other we had one time sex and he was so pleased to have it more but just suddenly he hardly respond me and he is online always on Whatsapp, whenever I asked he said I am busy and I need to be understanding! What should I do? He texted me this morning with a Good Morning and I miss you emoji. So I decided to just be patient and understand his situation. Sometimes I feel of emailing him and cursing him and his girlfriend for ruining my life and fooling me all throughout. I mean I find him very attractive, and he sounds like a really wonderful guy, but he isnt really putting in the effort. The truth hurts. When he comes to mine I treat him very well I am honest and open with him and yet he cant be with me but claims he wants a relationship with me and wants a future with me. Yesterday morning my mother was released from the hospital so I took her home. But out of blue he started fighting with me for no apparent reason. In Conclusion. Later that night he told me he couldnt come over because he was having a boys night. I know Im in a different place than he is. I am very much confused on these points below: 1. All tip submissions are carefully reviewed before being published.